WHY SOME LADIES WILL NEVER GET A GOOD HUSBAND

I felt sorry whenever I hear ladies at 28, 29, upward saying they don't have a man. We decided to devote time to study this trend.

In a nation where men outnumbered women, it is inconceivable to hear women cry for shortage of good men.

Our finding shows:

MATERIALISM: most women, are ever alert at the possibility of dating Rich guy or potential ones.He lives abroad,works in bank or oil coy etc. Forget what many of them say that money is not an issue. The true is that if you find any single lady from 28 upward. You'll find underneath her "surface tension" that silent desire for materialism. Our research group did online/offlin sample on 20 ladies by posing as poor man and rich man simultenously but with different ID.

Out of the 20, 17 women show by their act, they would go for cashman. Interesting thing is that 15 of the sample were on nairaland.And 13 of the materialistic ladies are nairalanders!

UNDUE COMPARISON:
Some ladies have penchant habit of comparing every man they meet with their ex.14 of the ladies on nairaland show that trait.The interesting thing is that,they also have shallow perception of what a successful relationship mean. They show tendency to distrust their partners. 10 of the 15 of those on nairaland are unfaithful. In other word, they fail the test that was meant to test their fidelity.The interesting thing about these women is that they sounded courageous but are very, very vulnerable to deception whether online or offline. Two of the nairalanders actually met their "suitors" at a designated venues. Both of them show that they are after all women and very vulnerable.One lady almost had sex with our contact just for dollar.Of course, they would never meet again. She made our contact "did it". However, the sex machine was not a nairaland lady. She was an offline sample.

EGO:
The tendency to show disinterest even though interested is another factor. The ladies hate desperate guys if he had no buck. But jumped at a banker if he "smell money."
 RELIGION:
this also limit chances of getting good man. Even though some ladies are not religous and are fake at best, they still want to marry a "pious" man from their churches etc.

They would rather go for a devil in their church than a saint in their backyard. Yet, they claim there are no good men!

TRIBE:
almost all the ladies except one out of the twenty won't mind marrying a foreigner even if he is poor. But most of the ladies have reservation against a fellow blackman if he doesn't come from the same tribe as them. This open up an interesting observation. We are working on parents' response to their wards marrying foreigners. The ladies who however would obey their parents if they oppose marrying other tribes show they would accept a foreigner regardless of their parents response!

RIGIDITY/ FEMINISM:
it is interesting to know that some of the singles from 28 years and above are rigid in ideology. They constantly clash with the guys and are ever ready to show that this is 21st century. One of the ladies went far to say that she won't be cooking for her husband. That same lady told the same man, (while acting as rich man) that she would cook the best dish for him and take care of home! A glaring revealation that revealed how women behaves.

One desperate lady would do anything to discourage poor men from her. She had bad experience in hands of a man. And had resolved never to marry a poor man even though she had no degree and is poor herself!

The rest of the finding would be revealed later. Watch out for a comprehensive book on the research that had taken months to compiled.

Meanwhile, when you hear a lady is single while men abounds, always take a second look at why they are single. Many of them had broken men's heart for selfish reason before coming to the market.